How to attract a Specific Person?
One of the most often asked questions is “Can you attract a specific person using the law of attraction?” The good news is Yes you can absolutely attract a specific person in your life in a relationship you choose and with success.
Love is the most important emotion of all in this entire universe. When it comes to money, jobs, and so many other things people don’t really have that much difficulty in manifesting. In matters of the heart if you don’t get what you want the pain is maximum. The one you love, that specific person, is the most important person for you, and even the entire world cannot substitute for that person. Now I have absolutely great news for you today. Yes, you can attract that specific person you are in love with. So today allow yourself to be absolutely elated and just follow the procedure below.
Desire and Desperation – You need to let go of the desperation
While desire is a sacred energy, an energy of creation, desperation is just the opposite, a destructive energy. When desire is unfulfilled the void is taken over by desperation. While desire is a pure and good energy, desperation is a powerful negative energy. Desire creates those vibes in you to attract, desperation creates just the opposite vibes, to repel. When you fell in love with that special person, the sacred seed of desire was sown in you. Due to whatever reasons when that desire was unfulfilled desperation crept in. So the first step is remove that desperation. Clear all desperation. 
How to clear desperation?
The easiest way to clear desperation is to let go. Surrender to the light of divine love of the Universe. Imagine a beautiful light of divine love, a pure radiant love light. Just surrender to that beautiful sparkling light. That light created you, gave you everything that you possess, and that light simply loves you, no matter what you have done so far. That light is forgiving, 100% pure love and powerful enough to create a beautiful reality beyond your wildest imagination. When you fell in love that light was silently telling you what to do, only if you listened. So let go of everything, surrender and start anew. Today submit yourself to that divine light and affirm to yourself you let go, you surrender and you allow that Divine Light to create a bright future, a bright love life for you. You accept the divine will because the divine will make your life far happier than you can imagine.
Once you do this you let go of any attachment to the result. Now the fun part begins.
Creating a beautiful love life
Once you have let go of any attachment to that person, you have given a very powerful and strong signal to the Universe you are now ready for love in your life. If previously your love was one sided now it’s time to create a both sided relationship. You are a super hero in your theater of the mind. Your movie is in your mind and your movie creates your reality. You have 100% control over your imagination and use this wisely to create a reality of your choice.
Now now simply imagine your loved one in love with you. Earlier you were one the one in love now imagine your lover is the one in love with you. “Your loved one loves you”, your desire is fulfilled. How does it feel? Say to yourself as an affirmation 1000’s of times “_______ loves me” See what happens in the next 5-7 days. See the shift in energy. Notice how you would feel. Visualize your lover is in love with you. Keep a tab on the feelings. How does it feel? Go lucid in your mind as you make love to your lover. How does it feel?
If you do the above stop properly you will realize and laugh at yourself, what was I so desperate for? And once you have done it well, your world opens up. You feel more powerful. If you do this properly you will feel like a winner and your world of choices opens you. You will definitely wonder what the big deal about this person that I was putting so much energy on? Why didn’t I just let go before?
Sending Love
While the above techniques were to get you out of your pit of desperate feelings and make you feel like a winner so that positive thoughts and feelings came and made you realize whether you wanted that person because of love or because you wanted to satisfy your ego. In many cases the desperation to get back isn’t because of love but because of a sense of conquest. So now you know in your heart whether you truly love the other person or not. If its love go forward else just allow the Universe to deliver the best vibrational match for you.
Now this is a very important step for those in love
Love – the power behind creation
Understand this. Love is THE most powerful energy in the Universe. With love you can create anything, win anyone’s heart, mind and soul. Every day for at least 10 minutes sit down and send loving thoughts to your loved one. Imagine you already have a relationship with her. Your lover loves you completely. Now what kind of loving thoughts would you send to your lover.
Imagine a pink ball of energy in between your hands in which you see you already have the relationship of your choice. In this ball you can see you and your lover. This ball can only contain pure and good love energy. Note the words, the thoughts, the kind of relationship you both have in this ball. Now let go of the pink ball. Let it flow away in the Universe.
Let go of any attachment. And if you do it right there will be no attachment now because you are already in a field where you can FEEL the feelings of the relationship and loving your lover. In case there are any doubts Affirm to yourself, “I surrender to my divine light”. “I only have love and gratitude for my divine light”.
Remember this very clearly Intention Manifestation can ONLY and ONLY happen when the feelings vibrational level is high. Desperation is like a deep well, it has a -ve vibration. Love and Gratitude have the highest vibration.
If you do this right your emotions at this point of time should be:
1. zero desperation. You will wonder where it has disappeared?
2. extremely happy because you have created a beautiful relationship and seen and felt it so vividly
3. a perfect happy relationship between you and the Universe where you only and only have Thank You’s for the Universe.
Your perfect relationship will manifest in all certainty. 60,000 thoughts a day is your thought karma. If Love and Gratitude is even in 80% of this thought karma you cannot imagine what a beautiful relationship you will create, far beyond your imagination.
Follow what works
One person’s fantasy is another person’s reality. Have you seen a friend or someone you know fall in love with someone and get that person? Were they desperate and needy? Did they have an attitude of a victim that “nothing works for me” or “everything simply works for me just fine”. The attitude you have in a relationship defines the altitude of your relationship. Have an attitude “You are simply the BEST CHOICE anyone can have”. It’s simply an attitude and YOU CAN CHOOSE THAT ATTITUDE THIS MOMENT.
Stop Loading Yourself with Demands
One of the best ways to experience THE MOST AWESOME DYNAMICS IN A RELATIONSHIP is Simply by Loving Yourself. That simple! Loving Yourself works. The Best high is Love. When you love yourself, you will allow yourself to experience awesomeness. You won’t DENY YOURSELF all that you seek. When you load yourself with demands that so and so person HAS to love you in order to you to be happy, you are stressing yourself. You are going against the flow of Universe, in a vibration of dis-trust in the very source that is your provider. You have set conditions that so and so person has love to you in order for you to love yourself. You are doing just the opposite of what you truly want. It’s like you want gold but are filling yourself with garbage thoughts. Whereas Simply Loving Yourself, telling yourself you are doing well, and everything will work just as fine eases the burden you are placing on yourself. You could try it for yourself and see how much ease it makes you feel almost instantly. Choose LOVE MYSELF FIRST as a motto. You can read more on A Course in Loving Yourself here.
Please help me with an answer!!!! I’m a deeply in love with my ex. Him and I are broken up and I’m using the law of attraction to attract him back. It says write a list of all the qualities I was very specific about the things I desire to have with my true love. I know in this process that after you ask, which I did, then all you have to do is feel good to receive. Well I feel good dating, I like someone at my job I would like to date him and have fun. Yes I’m still clear about what I want but I want to date someone that I like in this process. Is it okay for me to date someone in this process of manifesting my true love back to me?
It seriously works even when the first time i tried it. My crush suddenly showed up in front of me when i tried this for the 1st time. Today is the 3rd day of trying to attract my crush. Now he always comes up to talk to me, cant wait to see what happens next!
Thank u so much for this article, explaining so beautifully. I now realise, how i pushed away someone. I should practise patience. Its not ego, i truly love the person. I will surely practise what u have mentioned here. Am sure i will post a positive experience here again. Thank u & God bless you.
For months thoughts of my ex-husband have taken over my mind. Actually what happened is I purchased some soccer tickets and from the moment I had them in my hand my ex whom I hadn’t thought of for years came to mind. A month later we went to the game and he was there. This was the first time I had seen him in over 8 years. I was not interested in having a conversation with him in front of my son so we did look at each other, but nothing more. It has been almost 3 months since that day and he’s played a part in almost all my dreams. Also, strangely, almost all the people I have dated have contacted me “out of the blue” since that night. These are individuals I’ve not spoken with in years. I’ve been a widow for 2 years and I do feel lonely and long for love once more. I am unconsciously attracting these people into my life. What you write is true, but is it ethical? What if an old flame is now married?
hey. I have some questions for you, but first – sorry for my English, I do not speak fluently. So the thing is that when I was a child I suffered for violence in my family, then got an anorexia, so may be because of that a felt ugly and had no self – confidence. Today I’m healthy and famous for my beautiful appearance (thanks for the law of attraction), every single day I hear from people how beautiful I am. however, I never see it in a mirror. I know it because of other people, photographers and friends. Every single time I meet a guy, at the beginning our relationship is great,bet when the things start getting serious, I think that I’m not worth for such a good person. And I screw up everything.2 weeks ago I met a person. I’ve never thought that I can attract such a wonderful guy – it’s like from my dreams of my childhood. Everything was cool, but later I let negative emotions get in my head. I think that it’s possible, that this person is not the love of my life, but still I enjoy being with him, I was a little obsessed with him. I do not think it’s love, but I really want him to be in my life for while. I want to be his girlfriend, because when I’m with him, I feel so happy, free,save. So when I red, that thinking about a specific person can attract something better (real love of your life), I felt sad. in this period of my life I do not try to find my husband. I want to enjoy life (it’s only 5th month when I’m healthy) and I better chose that guy I met 2 weeks ago. So I want to ask if it’s possible to attract a specific person, only him?
Wow !!! amazing write-up. I am new to all this and honestly you just opened my eyes to it… it’s so well written and so expressive – makes everything sound easy and ‘happy’. Loved it. Thank you for this piece 🙂
I really like the point where you related the Desperation with Desire and it’s so true that Desperation always makes you “look for more” in some way and that will create unsatisfactory you will never fill the thirst for you finding no matter what it be Love, life or money.
Thank you for this amazing post, You are amazing!
Hi
So I won’t go into details of our relationship/breakup, but I want my ex back and I do truly love the person she is. Since our breakup things went from bad to worse – it started with her want to be friends but when I tried to give her that she decided she didn’t even want to be in contact. I did no contact for a while and then got back in touch, as this worked after the first time we broke up, but this time we didn’t really connect again – she is quite hesitant with me and very reluctant to allow us to be a part of each others lives again, even as friends – so I went back to no contact to give her more time while I was out of the country for a month. Upon my return I attempted to initiate contact, but she just read and ignored my messages.
Then I found this page. I tried it for a week and then she appeared in the gym I go to on a day and time she knows I always do my workout (she normally hates the gym, finds it boring).. she then blanked me and avoided me the whole time. Afterwards I messaged her and the next morning I got a response, so we are back in communication again, although its only 1 or 2 messages a day and she leaves it several hours before even reading my messages. 2 days after the first gym incident she turned up at the gym again, on yet another day and time she knows I do my workout, but again she blanked me and to make matters worse this time she brought with her the only friend of hers that really dislikes me – moral support in ignoring me, perhaps?
I don’t think I have any desperation left about getting her back, I’ve even manifested another girl who is interested in me, so I’m trying to trust my divine light and seeing what happens. I use affirmations and gratitude and I have written a story about our perfect relationship which I read every day (often I find my ex replies to a message while I am reading it, or just after I done a visualisation of my divine light along with affirmations that I am full of trust and love for it).
Anyway, the bottom line is I’m not sure if this is working or not, or maybe it is but not in the way I want? On the one hand it is working, I manifested her to appear in my world again, and to begin speaking with me again.. but on the other hand she’s blanking me in person and the communication we have in messages is kinda superficial. I’ll be honest, patience is not one of my strengths, although it is something I have been working on this year. So basically I guess I’m looking for guidance/advice – do you think I just need to be more patient for the rest of my story to manifest? Do you have any suggestions as to how I can keep my determination and focus in the face of being blanked or receiving poor communication?
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Hi dear , i want to know about ,can i attract a person who i never met or talking each other before but see him and know about which kind of a person he is.
I use law attraction .but in these cause i feel some debuts .because we never met,i know him ,but he don’t know me and he is not lives in my country [i know these are very negative thoughts]but want to know can i get him with is true love and care for me where ever he is in the world
When it says… ‘When you fell in love the light was telling you what to do if only you’d listened’ what does that mean? Thanks x
How often to do this in a day ?
My ex left me 8 weeks ago and started seeing someone 4 weeks ago. I’m worried if I send loving energy to him it will make their relationship better as he will think it’s coming from her and make their relationship stronger and more loving. Is this right? How can I know he’ll think it’s coming from from me? Thanks x
Hi.I have a question.I’ve fallen in love with a boy since 3 month ago.He was my teacher in a class.I felt he was attracted to me and loved me, but now i don’t see him.I actually miss him.I think he is the perfect guy for me.So I spend weeks thinking about this guy.I visualize us together,getting married every night.I say myself he loves me every day.He is always in my mind.Do you Think is it ok to do these things repetitive?Do i can attract this guy by using low of attraction?
I’m in desperate help
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Hi! So I’ve got a little question about the whole LOA and attracting a specific person… I hope I’ll be able to explain it: if I want to be with my friend (I’m not obsessed so I guess there should be no problem with the letting go part of loa, I just really fancy him and I’m curious what it would be like to get together) what’s the difference between what I should do if I want to be with him and my casual behaviour. On the level of visualisation and emotions ofc, not my real actions.. I usually feel happy with myself and rather fulfilled so how else do I let the Universe know I want to be with him? Is it enough if I just state my wish and believe? Or should I do sth more? Thank you for the answer. Peace and love 🙂
Comments are really helpful! Thank you! Releasing / letting go of some one who doesn’t love us back, is quite the process. I have found it helpful to incorporate the suffering into the daily “routine”. There’s exercise, laundry, work, shopping, etc. In that mix, i let the tears and pain have its say. Surrendering to / accepting rejection, so that more love may enter, is a serious job / duty – to be had along side the laundry, and every other daily experience. Stay with the whole process, and know “timing” is a part of the gift from the universe. Trust makes perfect sense, since the opposite leads to pain, anger, and illness. Be well!
this is so true
Yes it absolutely does work, I am very pleased to say ^^ it works. The first time was with this guy I was sort of infatuated with. I visualised us together and felt the feelings I would get when I would be with him. I made sure I felt good and stayed positive (despite my friends telling me it was “unrealistic”). Even though this took a while, I let go and put my faith in the universe. We will be together, for certain.
And then a few months later, he started to like me back and we would bump into each other all the time and we ended up actually hanging out. By then, I stopped liking him (also when I was infatuated with him, I didn’t know him just from afar), but it’s the experience that taught me so much. The same goes for my current partner, who liked me a bit anyway (so I guess that energy helped). I was insecure at first but I asked the universe to bring us together and made sure I knew it was already materialising and the universe was working on it, and I was able to go about my daily life as usual 🙂
Just think about how cosmic the universe is – it has the power to bring those things into your life, but YOU have the power to desire it, you are after all, in charge of how you feel and what you want to come into your life. At the end of the day, you are still an amazing human being with or without the person, it’s important to remember this.
love,
fae x
THIS WORKS. IT WORKS. THE FACT THAT YOURE EVEN HERE READING THIS IS PROOF THAT YOU BELIEVE IT’S POSSIBLE, SO IT IS. And with the letting go part, it really is the hardest part but just keep in mind that one day you’ll be fed up and tired of constantly wanting this particular thing to happen, so you let go without realizing. Just focus on being happier, being love, being yourself. It will happen. You just have to convince yourself that you’ll be happy with or without them, and of course you can be. We are born and die alone, so make the best out of it. If they don’t come back (which is rare) that means theres only better waiting for you. More positive, amazing things meant for you. But tbh they’ll probably come back in your life anyways xDDD oh and synchronicities will be your new best friend
PEACE!
Is it a sign if you start seeing that person on close proximity?
Thank you so much.. I will try this.
So, I have a question – I would like to attract my former boyfriend back into my life. I was told to send my request out to the universe and then let it go. So, while I’m waiting for my request to be fulfilled and doing my visualizations and manifestations, is it okay for me to date other guys? (When I say date, I mean NOTHING physical….just going out to eat, to the movies, to concerts, etc….just for companionship). Is it okay to do this while I wait or will it confuse the universe and make the universe think I’m not serious about attracting my former boyfriend back into my life?
After u have hurt one so much and nervous breakdown. I realize how much I love her and would like a second chance
Is there any hope left I have turn it ver t my higher power but cannot stop thinking about her. I need to get back to how I once was but better
I need to get back to being happy. Am 63
This helped me in such an unexpected way. I realized when I tried to send loving thoughts to this person that it was impossible to send thoughts that were centered around them doing what I want. I could only send thoughts that really focused on their happiness, not on mine. Such an eye opener. Thanks : )
Hi, very interesting love life, will like to know the outcome for you.
Dear,
I’d like to know if opposite signs can not help the manifestation, or is this y mind blocking my desire? I ak it because I’m a Taurus and i’m trying to attract a Virgo, and when I think that things are close, the opposite happens, and me person go away to other person.
Thank you
I am glad you brought up this topic. I really struggle with this idea of attracting specific people. For one if the one you want to attract is happily married? Who’s manifesting wins? What if a strange ugly not good hygiene person wants yo attract you, don’t you have a say in it? What about all these scary stalkers or harrassers? Don’t they have the same desire and delioision they will be with someone? Can you explain the differences?/
I’m just starting to do this. Sometimes I lose hope though. It’s hard when there’s NO sign that this person even cares about me.
I just want to say thank you for this page and I thank the universe for leading me to it. Lately I’ve been confused about a certain situation involving a specific person.
My ex departed from me a few days before Christmas last year and after doing so I found the “The Secret”. Even though she told me she never wanted to talk to me again I trusted that the universe has better plans for me.
Well, Feb 27th she called me and I remember my exact feelings in that moment and actually was away from my phone. I was thinking to myself how grateful I was for the people in my life and the roof over my head and food on my plate ect. She didn’t leave a voicemail and I didn’t know what to do or to call back so I didn’t. The following wed I let go completely again. I thought whatever will be will be and I have to stop waiting around. I love her and I want her to be happy and the universe has a plan for me. That morning after I get a Facebook friend request from her.. I was utterly shocked and I felt everything was lining up. So I messaged her the Sunday after through text and asked if everything was ok and I was sorry I missed her call. We both have iPhone so I saw she read the message but no reply. Now I just find myself in a state of confusion. Like I find myself waiting again and I know that shows neediness but I don’t understand why the little hints but not the actual manifestation. I feel like I am being tested. I know the universe knows what I want but why give me pieces?
I hope this made sense
August – did your manifestation woek
greetings. i read this artical 2 days ago. the person came to me like a devoted lover. but his mind travel a lot.. he realize that i am now not the person, and left me for other person but i started love him… i forgave him, and surrendered myself to the univers… now i know he will come, i love him, as also i am happy what did to be happy. i don’t know if it is the right feeling or not to get him back. sometimes i feel doubt inside me. but to be honest, this is what i fell now for last two days. please let me know if i am doing it right or not. thank you.
Congrats Twinkle.
Wishing you lot of love and happiness. It is your belief in yourself, dedication to the light within you and being in the flow instead of desperation, obsession and stuckiness that resulted in such a magnificient manifestation.
You are awesome. Wishing you a billion more Bright Miracles 🙂
Lots of love. You are awesome.
I have only went through your website on 11 Jan 2015 .
I was reading how to attract the specific person site . I was in depression and helpless . But this is realy a miracle to me . After went through the techniques on your website for a week , my boy friend text me that he was missing me and wanted to see me . We meet on 18th Jan 2015 after 2 months . I was speechless and realy realise how grateful the divine light could be . I did whatever you have advise in the website . Eg : Surrender , let go the attachmnt to divine light , sending love and being positive . And that turn to be a miracle . Im very happy and thank you so much .
I am still continuing the meditation techniques as you explain in your website .
Now I want to maintain this relationship and he my boy friend should fall me so deeply as I am and I want for to be together with me entire my lifetime .
Thankyou so much
how exactly?
Hi
Thank you for the post. Could this possibly work on a certain group of friends as well? If so, then how? I’ve seen many articles such as this; however, they have always been about a spouse instead of a friend.
hey, i really like your site and like so many others i am going to be back with my one true love… ive been working and living by the secret months now and if im truthfully honest have really applied everything ive been told too… im now working on your page and practices which i find really peacefull and feel in a place of knowing its done..i know i will do this it just be nice to happen faster
hi,
i met this guy in my office ,we became friends and then very gud friends..later on i realised dats n ot just a friendship..we spent so much time together,fun ,and what not ,,,,and this was the 1st time in my life i tarted feeling so much love with a guy.. i love him alot …i mean i actually see him as my husband,,but as always i attracted all negetivity and at times its realy become difficult to see him with other girls though they are friends,,but some whre my faith is there and i know that he is mine…
one messege to you saurav from all the spirits ..
you are very special to me…and i love you more than any thing in my life ..
i always see you with me in my dreams .,which i enjoy ,,i wish that you stay as happy as you are and may the universe bring us back togheter,,
and i am your girlfirnd and wife this time .. thank you for all those special time you gave me
i,ll ask u some question but after few days.
Hi,
Thanks for the information. this has helped me believe in me and my love and my feelings also.
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I met a guy one random night at a house party and I truly believe that he will change my life forever. My friend pointed to him and said, “August, look at him he’s cute!” As soon as I turned my head he immediately turned his and looked me straight in the eye. He smiled and said hi. We talked until sunrise on the porch and we had everything in common. He told me that he couldn’t believe how connected he felt to me within a few minutes and he said that he has never felt this way so quickly about anyone. We went out on a date the next day but then he had to run to the airport because he was only in town for a conference. I live in NYC and he lives in D.C. He’s a very busy attorney and he works almost 60+ hours per week. We hadn’t talked for about a week after we met. Then one night, I had a dream about him. It was me and him walking in a park and he was carrying a child. The child was definitely ours and we both kissed the baby and laughed a lot in the dream. It was a happy dream and it felt so real. The very next morning he called me and apologized for not calling sooner, he said he didn’t have much spare time but definitely wanted to see me again. We haven’t talked much since then but I know that he is special. He told me on the phone that that night was great and it was undeniable that we connected on a deep level in a very short amount of time. However he hasn’t called much. I started to get nervous and I started to give up and move on. But every time I think about writing him off, there is a little voice in my head that says that that’s not a good idea. Another day I told myself that maybe he’s no longer interested but every time I think that thought, another voice says that that’s not true. It’s weird, I feel like there is something else, some other source guiding me back in his direction. That voice also tells me to relax and tells me that our connection is still strong even if we aren’t talking to each other. I never had this happen with any other man I met. I’ve met other men that I thought I wanted and I would always feel anxious when the relationship doesn’t go the way I plan. Deep down inside, I would always feel like something was off, that other voice would tell me to leave them be. But this is the opposite with this guy. The voice is telling me to not loose hope on him and to be patient. I truly believe that he is the man that I am supposed to marry. He is my soul mate. I recently got offered a fellowship in D.C. that I applied for before I met him which means i’ll be moving to D.C. for 4 months. It’s really odd, I feel like the universe is moving the pieces to put us together. Even though we aren’t talking now, I think its because he may be clearing out his pipes to make room for me as I am probably doing the same. Either way, I know that the day will come where we will see each other again and it will feel like home. I came to this website to help manifest him into my life but a part of me feels like he is already here, even if he physically isn’t here or hasn’t talked to me. I know this sounds weird but this guy is it! I’m excited about my future, I have a feeling that this man will help me create everlasting love.
Mary, I desparately need help
THANK YOU SO SO SO SO SO SOOOO MUCH!!! YOU TRULY HELPED ME!! THANK YOU!! THANK YOU 🙂 <3
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I pray to my spirit guides to transmit this message :
Dear Henrique, I hope you are very well. I would like to invite you into the blue room. I just want to tell you that I don’t expect anything back from you. I release you. I am suffering and in immense pain. I am not able to forget you and I have tried really very hard. I wake up in pain everyday and night from sleep with your thoughts. I want to heal myself and take care of myself. I don’t hold you responsible in anyway. I misconstrued your flirting as love and I am solely responsible for how I feel.
Please understand that I would love to be in balance with you hereon. I am returning all the karmic energies that may have seeped from your body into me and reclaiming all the karmic energies that may have seeped from my body into yours. I ask love to heal our relationship and may we communicate with each other with compassion and forgiveness. May we recognize each others worth. Please set me free. I wish you well. I send you love and light.
Huggss
Hello Surya
Do share your experience.
Hi
This is just not a comment or reading.
This really works.Its need great patience.A strong determination and need to be very focused.
Anything is possible with the power of mind.
I have tried I have achived