“There is nothing you can ever do that will make you less in the eyes of the creator”
Regret, guilt, remorse over past are tools of the powerless to control the other who are powerless. They just keep a person in the past. Tibetan texts don’t have a word for guilt . It was Einstein who said the consciousness of a solution is very different from the consciousness of a problem. So guilt and remorse are as pointless as the act itself really.
Religion has used morals to control humanity. Just think over the fragility of religion that it needs morals to control people. Similarly think of the fragility of soul, if some petty act can make it corrupt.
Choice – Your Trump Card
A better approach maybe MAKING BETTER CHOICES for yourself to begin with and better choices for the world. No person ever makes the second best choice ever. So COMPASSION is the key to understand and forgive and make better choices.
You can use them as long as you want but when you can have the awareness to make better choices and living a life out of a sense of power and NOT GET BOUGHT by stupid and juicy narratives and stories of the mind, life becomes beautiful.
The Illusions of Problems
“Oh! its my problem. It’s such a big problem. You cant understand how big this is really for me. You havent had to go thru it so you wont understand. This really is such a special problem.”
That is almost making it seem as the problem is some diamond that you want to keep in your locker!
What is you want? The problem or life a beautiful life?
Today is a new day. This moment is a new moment. Make better choices. Life becomes beautiful when you do that.
So what is you would do if your problem was dissolved?
Remember in law of attraction we attract who we are, so resonate the vibes of problem ended, desire accomplished. Pretend, play, act as if or simply have an attitude as if the problem is over and notice what happens. The beauty about a problem is it comes with a beginning and end line. There is no problem that lasts forever. Look at a problem from beyond its end. You will see its over.
Choice is the trump card you can play at any moment to be either in the circle of the problem
or the circle of the solution. That choice determines suffering or happiness.